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The Sims 3 Guide to Raising Kids

Throwing Birthday Parties to Grow Up or Get Older

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See Also: Sims 3 Party Guide: Having Great Parties

This Sims 3 Guide was originally written for the PC and Mac versions of the game, but also will help owners of the console versions - PS3, Xbox 360 and Wii. Please remember some info or numbers may have changed.

Birthdays are the normal method of going through age transition in the Sims. If you don't have a birthday party, your Sim will be forced through an age transition at the end of the birthday. The Sims 3 game will warn you when your Sim is about to have a birthday, and you should be prepared when they are about to age or grow up so that they can have a nice party. I'm not sure that it has such a big impact on the game, but it's fun to watch a birthday party and a good way to make family friends for your Sims.

Setting up the Birthday Party

Sims 3 Parenting: Baby's First Birthday PartyUse the phone and select throw party. Make it a birthday party, and select the time you'd like it to begin. You'll also have to choose the dress code for the party. Rich Sims might want formal attire. Then, you'll be able to select from a list of Sims that your Sim knows. Most Sims you call will show up. Make sure that everything is ready when the guests arrive. Things get chaotic once the party starts.

You should have a nice source of entertainment at the party, and arrangements so that most people can have a seat to sit and eat. If your Sim is a great cook, you'll do well to serve your own food. For larger parties, look for the buffet table in the buy mode's kitchen tab (under kitchen tables). You can serve food on this table by clicking it. Doing so costs $250, but should do well to serve food to more guests. For smaller parties with the host being a bad cook, or not having enough time, order a pizza. This is often quite good enough to please most guests. Try to have music, television and other entertainment so that guests can mingle and do various fun things at the party.

Where are Birthday Cakes in the Sims 3?
This question gets asked a lot! You can find the birthday cakes on the outdoors tab, under outdoor activities (click the football). Click the cake once it's on the counter or table, to allow your Sim to choose who gets to blow out the candles. Choose the birthday boy or girl. Every Sim at the party will come to gather round, and your Sim will blow out the candles. At that point, they will grow/age into the next life stage.

Aging Up Early
Your Sim can age up early one time during their life. Do this by buying a birthday cake and blowing out the candles and they'll get older. Use it wisely.

See Also: Sims 3 Party Guide: Having Great Parties
Raising Kids in the Sims 3
Pregnancy/AdoptionBabies/ToddlersChildren
TeenagersBirthdaysBake SalesTraits by Age
Related Links
RomanceWoohooGhost BabiesGame Tips


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j says...
how many times can u use the birthday cake?
28th May 2013 3:45am
Jazmine says...
You can use the birthday cake every time your sim has a birthday (you can find out when the birthday is by going in simology). You can also use the birthday cake to age up a sim even if it is not it birthday (you can do this once a lifetime).

To use the cake, click on it (doesn't matter which sim you are using) then click on the person you want to age up. The people will then celebrate before sparkles will swirl around the birthday sim and that sim will age up.

You can only use one cake per birthday (but if there are two people having a birthday, use two cakes (just so you don't get confused))

I hope this answered your question :)

Admin:
Actually you can use cake once per day not per lifetime.  I've used it on every lifestage that it's possible (all but elder) for a single Sim before.
1st July 2013 11:34am
Yesenia says...
@Admin:

How can you use the cake again? I used it once and it was days ago and it won't let me do it again

Does having aging disabled affect anything at all?
Admin:
No it shouldn't.  Just buy a new cake and try to use it.  You can't use the same one over and over.
18th July 2013 5:54pm
Sarah says...
I have two babies and they are due to age up today. I have thrown them a party, but when I get any of my adult sims to select 'blow out candles' for them, nothing happens! Please help!
25th November 2017 11:03am
Playalot says...
Try resetting your sims and then selecting the cake again.
27th November 2017 8:50pm
Rich says...
Yo be better off using familyfunds for money all u have to is put in familyfunds- your family's last name-how much money like I used 999999999 and that's what I got
23rd August 2013 12:45am
not important says...
I tried clicking on the cake but it wouldn’t let me. idk what to do now help
23rd December 2018 4:57pm
Playalot says...
Try buying a new cake or/and try re-placing it in the center of a kitchen counter.
23rd December 2018 8:19pm
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